Martin Short addresses daughter’s tragic death publicly for the first time two months

Martin Short has opened up about the tragic suicide of his daughter Katherine Hartley Short at 42 less than three months ago, saying her loss has ‘been a nightmare’ for all who loved her while sharing a poignant message about mental health.

Katherine died in February from a self-inflicted gunshot wound, authorities with the Los Angeles Police Department confirmed in February.

Short, 76, spoke with CBS Sunday Mornings about the family tragedy, comparing her battle with mental health to that of the 2010 death of his wife Nancy Dolman, who passed away from cancer.

‘The understanding [is] that mental health and cancer, like my wife’s, are both diseases, and sometimes with diseases they are terminal,’ said the star of Father of the Bride, Three Amigos! and Only Murders in the Building.

He continued: ‘My daughter fought for a long time with extreme mental health, borderline personality disorder, other things, and did the best she could until she couldn’t.’

Short said his aim was to support a mental health awareness organization founded by Glenn Close called Bringchange2mind. 

He said the nonprofit aims to take ‘mental health out of the shadows’ and conduct frank discussions on the important topics at hand. 

Short shared a moving message that touched on how he hopes struggles with mental health can be understood. 

‘Not being ashamed of it, not hiding from the word suicide, but accepting that this can be the last stage of an illness – and that’s my approach to this,’ he said. 

The Canadian-born actor and comedian detailed how he had been faced with tragedy while growing up and how it had affected him.

He lost his older brother in a car crash when he was 12 and both his parents died when he was a teenager.

His mother, Short told People on May 7 in Los Angeles, died from cancer three years after his brother passed and his father followed her to his grave a year later.

‘What it developed in me was this muscle of survival and handling grief and a perspective on it,’ he explained.

‘We have to celebrate and be lucky enough the experiences that we’ve had with them.’

He added that he likes to think of those he loses as being ‘just gone into the next room for a while.’ 

Katherine was one of three children whom Short and his wife Nancy adopted during their long marriage.

Katherine was a licensed clinical social worker with a master’s degree from the University of Southern California 

Her loss ‘devastated’ the actor and her brothers Oliver Patrick, 39, and Henry Hayter, 36, a representative for the family said in February following the announcement of her death.

His daughter’s passing came just weeks after the death of his friend and collaborator of five-decades Catherine O’Hara and two months after the murders of his close friends Rob and Michele Reiner.

O’Hara died from a pulmonary embolism at 71 on January 30, with rectal cancer identified as the underlying long-term cause.

The celebrated actress is featured in Short’s upcoming Netflix documentary Marty: Life Is Short.

Directed by Lawrence Kasdan, it’s a reflection on his life and work and includes never-before-seen home movies, classic clips of his work and new interviews with his friends and famous co-stars.

Officials with the Los Angeles County Medical Examiner’s Office confirmed O’Hara’s cause of death as the result of a pulmonary embolism, with rectal cancer listed as an underlying cause. 

 

Short told CBS that losing his daughter, O’Hara and longtime friends Diane Keaton and Rob and Michele Reiner in a short span had been ‘staggering.’

He said when contemplating the painful losses, ‘You just have to breathe in, breathe out.’ 

Short and Dolman were married for 30 years before her death from ovarian cancer in 2010.

Of his late spouse, Short told the network, ‘She was funny – she had lots of edge. It was an equal ping pong match. … although Tom Hanks would go up to Nancy, “Aren’t you tired of laughing at his jokes?”‘

Short told CBS Sunday, ‘Nan’s last words to me were, “Marty, let me go,” and [Katherine] was just saying, “Dad, let me go.”‘

In the wake of his daughter’s tragic death, Short was visited at his Southern California home by peers such as Eugene Levy, Steven Spielberg, Kurt Russell and Paul Shaffer. 

Speaking about his late wife in a 2019 AARP interview, Short described their marriage as a ‘triumph.’

He said: ‘She died in 2010, but I still communicate with her all the time. It’s “Hey, Nan,” you know? How would she react to this decision or that, especially regarding our three kids.’

Short also said that he has never been one of those people who think death means ‘the end.’

‘I believe that when people die, they zoom into the people that love them,’ said Short. ‘This idea that it just ends, and don’t speak of them – that’s wrong. That’s based on denial that we’re all going to die. So to me, she’s still here.’

In his 2014 memoir I Must Say: My Life As a Humble Comedy Legend, Short said Dolman’s death is ‘by far the most awful thing I’ve been through.’

And as he supported his children through the grief of losing their mother, Short drew from his own experiences.

Speaking to his youngest child, son Henry, the night before his wife died, he told him: ‘This will make you stronger. This will make you more determined.’

In the interview, Short recalled how Nancy encouraged him to continue taking roles amid her ailment, as he landed a part on the FX drama Damages at the time.

‘I didn’t work as much, but I remember I was doing Damages at the time,’ he said.

‘This was the last five months, but I went for a month to shoot, and I remember getting to set, and no one knew.

‘And Glenn would go, ‘Marty’s here, yay!” And I’d go, ‘Okay. Let me just go to the dressing room for a second’ to calm down amid the emotional timeframe.

Short added, ‘You know, that’s what you have to do.’

He said he wasn’t sure if working amid the tough time was the right call, but something he did all the same. 

‘I don’t know if it helped,’ he said. ‘You know, it didn’t help, but you had to do it, you know? I mean, people have to do things in difficult times. And the mark of the man is: Can you do it?

Director Lawrence Kasdan told CBS of making the documentary about Short, ‘It was not a natural instinct of his to want it; he’s not like that. I had to sell him on it. 

Kasdan, whose credits include The Big Chill, Silverado and Body Heat, explained the tack he had to take with Short about putting together the doc.

‘I had to lie to him, tell him how much I loved him and I would never hurt him,’ he said. 

Life Is Short debuts May 12 on Netflix. 

According to a logline from the streamer, ‘Martin Short looks back on a life fueled by joy in this documentary with classic clips, fresh interviews and star-studded, never-before-seen home movies.’